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Prayer in the Orthodox Church
In
the Orthodox Church prayer is the elevation of the mind and the heart
to God in praise, in thanksgiving, and in petition for the spiritual
and material goods we need. Our Lord Jesus Christ commanded us to
enter into our inner room and there pray to God the Father in secret.
This inner room means the heart, the core of our being.
The Apostle Paul says that we must always pray in our spirit. He commands prayer for all Christians without exception and asks us to pray unceasingly.
Orthodox Christians engage in both corporate and personal prayer. One’s individual prayer life is balanced with participation in the liturgical services of the Church where the whole community gathers for prayer and worship
Why do we Pray?
First of all, Christ asks us to pray. He tells us in the Gospel of
Luke, How much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit
to those who ask him (Luke 11:13). We pray so that God can help
us to become more like Him in our actions. We also pray for our
renewal and the growth of our soul. We pray to give thanks to God
for all he provides for us. We also pray to seek forgiveness for
our sinfulness. We can also pray to seek help for others as well
as ourselves. But we must not forget to pray for His help in our
own spiritual growth. This is not selfish, but essential for us
to better love and serve others and carry out God’s commandments.
We can ask also for His help in supporting us in the various ascetic
practices we choose to undertake to help purify our inner being.
We are asked to pray without ceasing. Here
are the Scripture references to this idea.
Pray without ceasing (1Thess 5:17)
Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit (Eph
6:158)
He spoke a parable to them, that men always ought to pray and not
lose heart. (Luke 18:1)
Our life is to become one of a constant prayer where we are continually
in a relationship with God. This is our main task, to draw nearer
to God. Saint Isaac of Syria says that it is impossible to draw near
to God by any means other than unceasing prayer.
How Do We Pray?
"Prayer needs no teacher. It requires diligence, effort and personal ardor, and then God will be its teacher." St. Meletius the Confessor
A Regular Time
First, you need to establish a regular time to pray. You should have
as a minimum a time in the morning and a time in the evening. With
our busy lives this means you will have to make some conscious
changes to make time for prayer. Pick a time that you know you
can keep no matter what. Strict discipline in this is important.
The length of time is something that only you can determine in
consultation with your spiritual father. You prayer time should
not be less than ten minutes in the morning and then again in the
evening. Your time in prayer will grow as your relationship with
God grows. At first you will find it a struggle to maintain what
seem like a simple discipline as there are negative forces that
will try and keep you from regular prayer. But, there will come
a time when you can’t wait for the time to pray. Expect a struggle
in the beginning to maintain a strict schedule. As the popular
saying goes, “Just do it!” Think of all the other things in your
life that you do routinely like getting to work of school on time,
or personal hygiene acts like brushing your teeth. Surely you can
also make prayer a fixed routine.
A Private Place
Next,
you need to find a quiet private place where you will not be disturbed
for your daily prayer. This may be a corner in the bedroom (a room
divider can help make a special place), space in a walk-in closet,
or, if you are fortunate to have an extra room, a special room that
is only for prayer. It needs to be a place where you can be undisturbed
and alone. Once you choose the place, you should set up a small home
icon stand. On it place an icon of Christ, Theotokos, and your patron
saint. Have an oil lamp or candle that you can light while you pray.
Also an incense burner, a cross and a prayer book and Bible.
Praying
With a regular time and a special place, you are ready to begin.
You begin praying by focusing your consciousness in your heart
and forcibly gathering there all the powers of the soul and body.
Take the time at the beginning of your prayer time to quiet your
body and to concentrate your energies in your heart. Christ says,
“Enter into thy closet and ... shut thy door” (Matt 6:6). Remove
all activities that could disrupt your inner descent. Set aside,
to the best of your ability, all of your problems of the day and
your worries for tomorrow. This is not a time for thinking or worrying.
When you are preparing to pray, stand, sit or walk a few minutes
and steady your mind to concentrate on God.
Reflect on who it is that you will be addressing.
Remember, it is God Himself who you are about to talk with. Try to
bring about a feeling of humility and reverent awe. Make some prostrations
before you begin.
You should have a specific rule for both morning and evening. Don’t
try and wing it. You are developing a discipline that is beyond what
you will feel like doing. This is not a relaxation exercise but a
path to be in communion with your God. You will need to have a specific
set of guidelines that you follow each time with no excuses for shortcutting
them. In your rule, incorporate standing, prostrations, kneeling,
making the sign of the cross, reading, and at times singing. Use
prayer books and written prayers. The Orthodox prayer books are filled
with prayers that have been well tested and used for hundreds of
years. Prayer does not have to be a creative activity. You must be
sincere. Keep your awareness in your heart and concentrate on the
words of the prayer. Once you establish a rule, always keep it. Be
sure to work with your spiritual Father on this.
As you begin to pray enter into every word of the prayer. Bring the meaning of the words down into your heart. Do not rush through the prayers like you are in a hurry to get them over with. Let them slowly drop into the depths of your heart with humility and awe of God. Its like in driving a car. When you are going 90 miles per hour down the highway the driver may feel powerful and in control. But at high speeds things can go wrong fast. When driving at a speed of twenty-five miles per hour the car handles easy and if someone makes a dangerous maneuver you can easily avoid it. Well, the mind works the same way. We want to train it to slow down so we can open our heart to God’s presence. So, in prayer we say the words slowly so we can gain the meaning of them and allow them to penetrate our consciousness and to bring to our heart feelings of love and reverence for our God. Let the words drop individually into your heart like pebbles dropping into a pond. You will eventually find the right pace for yourself. Beware of the tendency to rush to complete them hurriedly. When this happens you have turned your prayer into an obligation and it is no longer true prayer. Don’t worry if you catch your self doing this. It is normal at first. Just stop and slow down and proceed asking God’s forgiveness and help. Also, study the prayers before you use them so you know the meaning of each word. Eventually you will want to memorize them.
After you begin to recite your prayers you will find that your mind will want to wander. Don’t be concerned about this as this is natural due to the forces that do not want us to pray to God. Work to learn to concentrate your attention. When you mind wanders, be gentle with yourself and go back and recite again what you said while your mind was elsewhere. Bring yourself to concentrate on the words of the prayer. Sometimes it helps to say them out loud for a while. The mind is quite adept at being able to have you do more than one thing at a time. You need to bring yourself to a single focus on God. These wanderings of the mind show you the dimensions of your busy life that you need to find ways to make quieter so you can be always mindful of God. Prayer it is not time to focus on these worldly activities, because this will only further distract you from prayer. Work to concentrate your attention more and more. Each day you will gain in your attentiveness during prayer.
When you finish your prayers, stand for a few moments. Consider to what your prayer life commits you. Try to hold in your heart what has been given to you. Treasure it for a few moments.
Remember to make your prayer life one that is a firm rule and not something that is done occasionally or sporadically. It must be done each day morning and evening at a minimum. You need to have specific prayers that are part of your prayer rule. You need to commit to doing you rule each and every day. Think about certain personal hygiene tasks such as brushing your teeth that you do each day out of habit . You don’t forget to do them each day. The same needs to be with your prayer rule. You need to make prayer a similar habit that you never forget. Just like the hygiene activities that we do for the health of our body, prayer is essential for the health of our soul.
- Suggestions for Evening Prayer
- Suggestions for Morning Prayer
- Trisagion
- For All Occasions
Suggestions for evening prayer
Prayers of Thanksgiving
Now that the day has ended, I thank you Lord, and I ask that
the evening and the night be sinless. Grant this to me, O
Savior, and save me.
Glory to the Father, and the Son and the Holy Spirit
Now that the day has passed, I glorify you, O Master, and I
ask that the evening and the night be without offense. Grant
this to me, O Savior, and save me.
Both now and forever and to the ages of ages. Amen
Now that the day has run its course, I praise you, O Holy One,
and I ask that the evening and the night be undisturbed. Grant
this to me, O Savior, and save me.
Prayers for Forgiveness
Lord, God our Father, if during this day I have sinned in word,
deed or thought forgive me in Your goodness and love. Grant
me peaceful sleep; protect me from all evil and awake me
in the morning that I may glorify you, Your Son and Your
Holy Spirit now and forever and ever. Amen.
As you lie down to sleep say:
Lord, into Your hands I commend my soul and body. Bless me,
be merciful to me and grant me life eternal. Amen.
Suggestions for morning prayer
Lord, give me the strength to greet
the coming day in peace. Help me in all things to rely on Your
holy will. Reveal Your will to me every hour of the day. Bless
my dealings with all people. Teach me to treat all people who
come to me throughout the day with peace of soul and with firm
conviction that Your will governs all. In all my deeds and
words guide my thoughts and feelings. In unexpected events,
let me not forget that all are sent by you. Teach me to act
firmly and wisely, without embittering and embarrassing others.
Give me the physical strength to bear the labors of this day.
Direct my will, teach me to pray, pray in me. Amen.
(Here you may add your own private prayers and intercessions,
using your own words or some of the Prayers found on the Web
Page. When you have finished, conclude with this prayer.)
Through the prayers of our holy Fathers, Lord Jesus Christ
our God, have mercy on us and save us. Amen.
Trisagion Prayer
You can begin all your prayer times
with this prayer.
Heavenly King, Comforter, the Spirit
of Truth, present in all places and filling all things, Treasury
of Goodness and Giver of life: come and abide in us. Cleanse
us from every stain of sin and save our souls, O Gracious Lord.
Holy God. Holy Mighty. Holy Immortal Have mercy on us.(3)
Glory to the Father, and the Son and the Holy Spirit, both
now and forever and to the ages of ages. Amen
All Holy Trinity, have mercy on us. Lord, forgive our sins.
Master, pardon our transgressions. Holy One, visit and heal
our infirmities, for the glory of Your name.
Lord, have mercy.(3)
Glory to the Father, and the Son and the Holy Spirit, both
now and forever and to the ages of ages. Amen
Our Father, Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy Kingdom
come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us
this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses, as
we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into
temptation, but deliver us from evil.
For Yours is the Kingdom and the Power and the Glory of the
Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, both now and forever
and to the ages of ages. Amen.
Prayers for All Occasions
Daily
Prayers
Family
Prayers
Communion
Prayers
Abbreviated
Orthros and Vespers for Youth Gathering and Retreats
The
Creed
Prayer
to Your Guardian Angel
Prayers
to Your Patron Saint
Mealtime
Prayers
Prayers
for Entering and Leaving Church
Prayers
in Time of Illness
Prayers
in Time of Trouble
Prayers
in Time of Need
Prayer
Against Demonic Influence
Prayer
for Peace
Prayers
Before or After Any Task
Prayer
Toward the Unknown
Prayers
Before Travel
Prayers
for Repentance
Prayer
of St Francis of Assisi
Lenten
Prayers
Prayers
for Study
Prayers
for the Dead
Prayer
After a Miscarriage
What is a Prayer Rope (Comboschini) ?
The
prayer rope is not some kind of amulet with magic or exorcising powers.
On the contrary, it is a purely Orthodox holy object used only for
praying and nothing else.
There are two ways we can pray using the prayer
rope:
1. At any time of the day when we have free time, without being seen
by anyone, secretly, we hold the prayer rope with our left or right
hand and move from knot to knot with our thumb whispering simultaneously
or meditating upon the prayer: "Lord Jesus Christ have mercy
on me" or "Most Holy Theotokos save us".
2. At the time of our regular prayer, when we pray following the
rule of prayer that our spiritual father has told us to follow, we
hold the prayer rope with our left hand between the thumb and the
index finger and move from knot to knot. At each knot we simultaneously
do two things: i) with our right hand we make the sign of the cross
over ourselves and ii) we say the prayer "Lord Jesus Christ
have mercy on me". When we finish with all the knots of the
prayer rope, we continue following the same procedure, for as many
times as our spiritual father has advised.
Audio Viuals Materials
Elder Cleopa - On
Prayer - Video
The
Path of Prayer (Four Sermons on Prayer by Saint Theophan
the Recluse)
A
video of a seminar given by Fr. Aris Metrakos of Holy Trinity,
Columbia, South
1. Why Pray?
2. Standing before God with our mind in our heart.
3. Living in the Present
4. Being Real
5. The Church, Uniqueness,and Humility
6. How to Pray
7. Threefold Way
8. Questions
A Sample Prayer Rule
A prayer rule is the outline of our daily prayer routine. It is important
to have a thought out rule. Casually going to your place for prayer
and simply talking with God is not the best way to begin to develop
your prayer life. We will find that we end up babbling in front
of our God. We can take advantage of the centuries of wisdom and
being by using proven prayers that will lift us up in our way of
communicating with God.
A prayer rule should first specify the place
and time of prayer.
Then it should outline the sequence of your prayers and the specific
prayers you will say. Below is an example of a beginners prayer rule
Morning and Evening Prayer
Place: In the icon stand in the spare bead room
Time: 6:30am and 11:00pm for 20 minutes each time
Begin by lighting a candle, and making three prostrations and then
stand quietly to collect yourself in your heart
Trisagion Prayer
One of six Morning or Evening Psalms
Intercessions for the living and the dead
Psalm 51 and confession of your sinfulness
Doxology and the morning or evening prayer
Personal dialogue with God
Jesus prayer - repeat 100 times.
Reflect quietly on the tasks of the day and prepare yourself for
the difficulties you might face asking God to help you .
Dismissal prayer
Remember to stop mid morning , noon and mid
afternoon to say a simple prayer.
Repeat the Jesus Prayer in your mind whenever you can throughout
the day.
Offer a prayer before and after each meal thanking God and asking
for His blessing.
Prayer Sites
St. Theophan the Recluse On Prayer
A Prayer Rule by Saint Theophan the Recluse
Prayer as an Important Aspect of our Spiritual Life by Monk Moses
Selections from the Arena on Prayer
Prayer
of the Heart for the Faithful Living in the World
What
is Prayer by GOARCH Department of Education
Orthodox
Worship - prayer
Article
on praying the Jesus Prayer by Dr. Albert Rossi, of St.
Vladimir's
The
Art of Prayer: An Orthodox Anthology, by Holy Cross Press
On
Prayer by
Archimandrite Sophrony
Prayer without Ceasing is Necessary
for All Christians by Gregory Palamas
Theophan
the Recluse, Four Homilies on Prayer
St.
Theophan's very practical advice about prayer
PRAYER
FACTS
Teen
prayer statistics
Article
about prayer and brain activity
CHILDREN
AND PRAYER
Child's
Morning Prayer
Child's
Evening Prayer
Some
Books on PRAYER
Beginning
to Pray by
Metropolitan Anthony Bloom
The
Spiritual Life and How to be Attuned to It by
St. Theophan the Recluse
Father
Arseny: Priest, Prisoner, Spiritual Father,
(by Vera Bouteneff, tr.) a powerful book that we recommend for
teens; illustrates the power of prayer
The
Way of a Pilgrim,
anonymous author (many translations available)
Prayer
Changes Teens,
book by Janet McHenry
Orthodox Prayer Life: The Interior Way by Matthew the Poor
A Night in the Desert of the Holy Mountain: Discussion with a Hermit on the Jesus Prayer bt Metropolitan Hierotheos
The Art of Prayer: An Orthodox Anthology
Writings from the Philokalia: On Prayer of the Heart
A Beginner's Guide to Prayer: The Orthodox Way to Draw Closer to God by Michael Keiser
ORTHODOX
PRAYERS
PrayerBooklet
A nice prayer booklet for youth compiled by the youth department
of the OCA - pdf file
Orthodox
Prayers,
compiled by OCF
Online
Chapel of the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese
My
Orthodox Prayer Book by Greek
Orthodox Archdiocese Department of Religious Education
My
Daily Orthodox Prayer Book by
Anthony Coniaris Light and Life Publishing
by St. Ignatius (Brianchaninov)
THE
CORRECT PRACTICE of the Jesus Prayer proceeds naturally from correct
notions about God, about the most holy name of the Lord Jesus,
and about man's relationship to God.
God is an infinitely great and all-perfect being. God is the Creator and Renewer of men, Sovereign Master over men, angels, demons and all created things, both visible and invisible. Such a notion of God teaches us that we ought to stand prayerfully before Him in deepest reverence and in great fear and dread, directing toward Him all our attention, concentrating in our attention all the powers of the reason, heart, and soul, and rejecting distractions and vain imaginings, whereby we diminish alertness and reverence, and violate the correct manner of standing before God, as required by His majesty (John 4:23-24; Matt. 22:37; Mark 12:29-30; Luke 10:27).
St. Isaac the Syrian put it marvelously: "When you turn to God in prayer, be in your thoughts as an ant, as a serpent of the earth, like a worm, like a stuttering child. Do not speak to Him something philosophical or high-sounding, but approach Him with a child's attitude" (Homily 49).
Those who have acquired genuine prayer experience an ineffable poverty of the spirit when they stand before the Lord, glorify and praise Him, confess to Him, or present to Him their entreaties. They feel as if they had turned to nothing, as if they did not exist. That is natural. For when he who is in prayer experiences the fullness of the divine presence, of Life Itself, of Life abundant and unfathomable, then his own life strikes him as a tiny drop in comparison to the boundless ocean. That is what the righteous and long-suffering Job felt as he attained the height of spiritual perfection. He felt himself to be dust and ashes; he felt that he was melting and vanishing as does snow when struck by the sun's burning rays (Job 42:6).
The name of our Lord Jesus Christ is a divine name. The power and effect of that name are divine, omnipotent and salvific, and transcend our ability to comprehend it. With faith therefore, with confidence and sincerity, and with great piety and fear ought we to proceed to the doing of the great work which God has entrusted to us: to train ourselves in prayer by using the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. "The incessant invocation of God's name," says Barsanuphius the Great, "is a medicine which mortifies not just the passions, but even their influence. Just as the physician puts medications or dressings on a wound that it might be healed, without the patient even knowing the manner of their operation, so also the name of God, when we invoke it, mortifies all passions, though we do not know how that happens" (421st Answer).
Our ordinary condition, the condition of all mankind, is one of fallenness, of spiritual deception, of perdition. Apprehending—and to the degree that we apprehend, experiencing—that condition, let us cry out from it in prayer, let us cry in spiritual humility, let us cry with wails and sighs, let us cry for clemency! Let us turn away from all spiritual gratifications, let us renounce all lofty states of prayer of which we are unworthy and incapable! It is impossible "to sing the Lord's song in a strange land" (Ps. 136:5), in a heart held captive by passions. Should we hear an invitation to sing, we can know surely that it emanates "from them that have taken us captive" (Ps. 136:3). "By the waters of Babylon" tears alone are possible and necessary (Ps. 136:1).
This is the general rule for practicing the Jesus Prayer, derived from the Sacred Scriptures and the works of the Holy Fathers, and from certain conversations with genuine men of prayer. Of the particular rules, especially for novices, I deem the following worthy of mention.
St. John of the Ladder counsels that the mind should be locked into the words of the prayer and should be forced back each time it departs from it (Step XXVIII, ch. 17). Such a mechanism of prayer is remarkably helpful and suitable. When the mind, in its own manner, acquires attentiveness, then the heart will join it with its own offering—compunction. The heart will empathize with the mind by means of compunction, and the prayer will be said by the mind and heart together. The words of the prayer ought to be said without the feast hurry. even lingering, so that the mind can lock itself into each word. St. John of the Ladder consoles and instructs the coenobitic brethren who busy themselves about monastic obediences and encourages them thus to persevere in prayerful asceticism: "From those monks who are engaged in performing obediences," he writes, "God does not expect a pure and undistracted prayer. Despair not should inattention come over you! Be of cheerful spirit and constantly compel your mind to return to itself! For the angels alone are not subject to any distraction" (Step IV, ch. 93). "Being enslaved by passions, let us persevere in praying to the Lord: for all those who have reached the state of passionlessness did so with the help of such indomitable prayer. If, therefore, you tirelessly train your mind never to stray from the words of the prayer, it will be there even at mealtime. A great champion of perfect prayer has said: 'I had rather speak five words with my understanding . . . than ten thousand words in an unknown tongue' (I Cor. 14:19). Such prayer," that is, the grace-given prayer of the mind in the heart, which shuns imaginings, "is not characteristic of children; wherefore we who are like children, being concerned with the perfection of our prayer," that is, the attentiveness which is acquired by locking the mind into the words of the prayer, "must pray a great deal. Quantity is the cause of quality. The Lord gives pure prayer to him who, eschewing laziness, prays much and regularly in his own manner, even if it is marred by inattention" (The Ladder, Step XXVI11, ch. 21).
Novices need more time in order to train themselves in prayer. It is impossible to reach this supreme virtue shortly after entering the monastery or following the first few steps in asceticism. Asceticism needs both time and gradual progress, so that the ascetic can mature for prayer in every respect. In order that a flower might bloom or the fruit grow on a tree, the tree must first be planted and left to develop; thus also does prayer grow out of the soil of other virtues and nowhere else. The monk will not quickly gain mastery of his mind, nor will he in a short time accustom it to abide in the words of the prayer as if enclosed in a prison. Pulled hither and thither by its acquired predilections, impressions, memories and worries, the novice's mind constantly breaks its salvific chains and strays from the narrow to the wide path. It prefers to wander freely, to stroll in the regions of falsehood in association with the fallen spirits, to stray aimlessly and mindlessly over great expanses, though this be damaging to him and cause him great loss. The passions, those moral infirmities of human nature, are the principal cause of inattentiveness and absentmindedness in prayer. The more they are weakened in a man, the less is he distracted in spirit when graying. The passions are brought under control and mortified little by little by means of true obedience, as well as by self-reproach and humility—these are the virtues upon which successful prayer is built. Concentration, which is accessible to man, is granted by God in good time to every struggler in piety and asceticism who by persistence and ardor proves the sincerity of his desire to acquire prayer.
The Russian hieromonk Dorotheus, a great instructor in spiritual asceticism, who was in this respect very much like St. Isaac the Syrian, counsels those who are learning the Jesus Prayer to recite it aloud at first. The vocal prayer, he says, will of itself turn into the mental.
"Mental prayer," he continues, "is the result of much vocal prayer, and mental prayer leads to the prayer of the heart. The Jesus Prayer should not be said in a loud voice but quietly, just audibly enough that you can hear yourself." It is particularly beneficial to practice the Jesus Prayer aloud when assailed by distraction, grief, spiritual despondency andlaziness. The vocal Jesus Prayer gradually awakens the soul from the deep moral slumber into which grief and spiritual despair are wont to thrust it. It is also particularly beneficial to practice the Jesus Prayer aloud when attacked by images, appetites of the flesh, and anger; when their influence causes the blood to boil. It should be practiced when peace and tranquillity vanish from the heart, and the mind hesitates, becomes weak, and—so to speak—goes into upheaval because of the multitude of unnecessary thoughts and images. The malicious princes of the air, whose presence is hidden to physical sight but who are felt by the soul through their influences upon it, hearing as they mount their attack the name of the Lord Jesus—which they dread—will become undecided and confused, and will take fright and withdraw immediately from the soul. The method of prayer which the hieromonk suggests is very simple and easy. It should be combined with the method of St. John of the Ladder: the Jesus Prayer should be recited loud enough that you can hear yourself, without any hurry, and by locking the mind into the words of the prayer. This last, the hieromonk enjoins upon all who pray by Jesus' name.
The method of prayer propounded by St. John of the Ladder should be adhered to even when one is practicing the method which was explained by the divine St. Nilus of Sora, in the second homily of his monastic constitution. The divine Nilus borrowed his method from the Greek Fathers, Symeon the New Theologian and Gregory of Sinai, and simplified it somewhat. Here is what St. Nilus says: "Experience will soon confirm as correct and very beneficial for mental concentration the recommendation of these holy fathers regarding restraint in breathing, i.e. that one should not breathe with great frequency." Some, without understanding this method, exaggerate its importance and restrain their breath beyond reasonable measure, thereby injuring their lungs and at the same time inflicting harm upon their souls by assenting to such a mistake. All impulsive and extreme actions are but obstacles to success in prayer, which develops only when nurtured by the tranquil, quiet and pious disposition of both soul and body. "Whatever is immoderate comes from the demons," says St. Pimen the Great.
The novice who is studying the Jesus Prayer will advance greatly by observing a daily rule comprising a certain number of full prostrations and bows from the waist, depending upon the strength of each individual. These are all to be performed without any hurry, with a repentant feeling in the soul and with the Jesus Prayer on the lips during each prostration. An example of such prayer may be seen in the "Homily on Faith" by St. Symeon the New Theologian. Describing the daily evening prayers of the blessed youth George, St. Symeon says: "He imagined that he was standing before the Lord Himself and prostrating himself before His holy feet, and he tearfully implored the Lord to have mercy upon him. While praying, he stood motionless like a pillar and bade his feet and the other parts of his body to stay still, especially the eyes, which were restrained from moving curiously in all directions. He stood with great fear and trepidation and denied himself sleep, despondency and laziness." Twelve prostrations suffice in the beginning. Depending upon one's strength, ability and circumstances, that number can be constantly increased. But when the number of prostrations increases, one should be careful to preserve the quality of one's prayer, so that one not be carried away by a preoccupation with the physical into fruitless, and even harmful, quantity. The bows warm up the body and somewhat exhaust it, and this condition facilitates attention and compunction. But let us be watchful, very watchful, lest the state pass into a bodily preoccupation which is foreign to spiritual sentiments and recalls our fallen nature! Quantity, useful as it is when accompanied by the proper frame of mind and the proper objective, can be just as harmful when it leads to a preoccupation with the physical. The latter is recognized by its fruits which also distinguish it from spiritual ardor. The fruits of physical preoccupation are conceit, self-assurance, intellectual arrogance: in a word, pride in its various forms, all of which are easy prey to spiritual deception.
The fruits of spiritual ardor are repentance, humility, weeping and tears. The rule of prostrations is best observed before going to sleep: then, after the cares of the day have passed, it can be practiced longer and with greater concentration. But in the morning and during the day it is also useful, especially for the young' to practice prostrations moderately—from twelve to twenty bows. Prostrations stimulate a prayerful state of the mind and mortify the body as well as support and strengthen fervor in prayer.
These suggestions are, I believe, sufficient for the beginner who is eager to acquire the Jesus Prayer. "Prayer," said the divine St. Meletius the Confessor, "needs no teacher. It requires diligence, effort and personal ardor, and then God will be its teacher." The Holy Fathers, who have written many works on prayer in order to impart correct notions and faithful guidance to those desiring to practice it, propose and decree that one must engage in it actively in order to gain experiential knowledge, without which verbal instruction, though derived from experience, is dead, opaque, incomprehensible and totally inadequate. Conversely, he who is carefully practicing prayer and who is already advanced in it, should refer often to the writings of the Holy Fathers about prayer in order to check and properly direct himself, remembering that even the great Paul, though possessing the highest of all testimonies for his Gospel—that of the Holy Spirit—nevertheless went to Jerusalem where he communicated to the apostles who had gathered there the Gospel that he preached to the gentiles, "lest by any means," as he said, "I should run, or had run, in vain " (Gal. 2:2).
Translated by Stephen Karganovic from The Alphabet of Orthodox Life, Belgrade, 1974. This appeared in Orthodox Life, vol. 28, no. 5, Sept.-Oct. 1978, pp. 9-14. Republished from Orthodox Information Center
Books
The Art of Prayer: An Orthodox Anthology (Paperback)
by Igumen Chariton (Author)
Writings from the Philokalia: On Prayer of the Heart (Paperback)
by E. Kadloubovsky (Translator), G.E.H. Palmer (Translator)
On the Prayer of Jesus (Paperback)
by Ignatius Brianchaninov (Author), Kallistos Ware (Foreword)
The Jesus Prayer (Paperback)
by Lev Gillet (Author), Kallistos Ware (Foreword)
The Way of a Pilgrim: The Jesus Prayer Journey Annotated & Explained (Paperback)
by Gleb Pokrovsky (Author), Andrew Harvey (Forewor
Prayer
is the search for God, encounter with God, and going beyond this
encounter in communion. ...our first steps in prayer take the form
of astonishing reverent fear and a sense of sadness. We are astonished
at the discovery of ourselves which is also the beginning of knowledge
of God; we are astonished to see the world open out towards God’s
infinity. We are afraid, glad and terrified when we come into the
presence of God’s holiness and beauty. We are also sad, both for
ourselves and the world. It is sad to be blind, it is sad to be unable
to live the fulness of our vocation, to be trapped again and again
in our own limitations. It is sad to see our world without God, vacillating
between life and death and unable to choose life once and for all
or to escape once and for al from death. It is always a mutual encounter.
It is always a discovery not only of the other but of ourselves...
At the start, any man seeking this encounter is alone and must learn
to recognize the existence of the other. And this recognition must
take place in a relationship and not in isolation.... we must be
prepared to set ourselves aside to some extent, to go beyond ourselves
and to admit the other’s needs and his rights to independence and
freedom outside of us....there remains a central mystery that we
cannot solve. If we could become detached from ourselves and gain
the inner freedom which the Fathers called apathy, that is to say
the absence of passion , we could see things more and more luminously.
We could also see the splendor of God’s presence in this dark add
opaque world. We could see grace active everywhere and in all things.
Hearing means bowing our heads in humility which is capable of accepting
what the other person is sowing on the ground of our mind and heart....We
must listen in order to hear and profit by what we hear. This is
the proper attitude to God, total attention because we must hear
him, and the desire, determination to receive his message and profit
by it, that is to say be transformed, changed, to stop being what
we are and to become what we are called to be.We must love... for
we only see what we love. We think we see what we hate, but really
in our hatred we see only deformed images, caricatures.We must also
have a pure heart capable of finding God beyond the darkness which
hides him.
...if we want to pray with a free heart, we must make our peace with God, our conscience, our neighbor and even the things about us.We must want to obey with all our heart, like a son, like children of the kingdom who truly want what they pray when they say ‘Hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come, thy will be done.’...let us be careful not to seek mystical experience when we should be seeking repentance and conversion. That is the beginning of our cry to God. “Lord make me what I should be, change me whatever the cost.’We must try and discover the real person we are, the secret person, the core of the person to come, and the only eternal reality which is already in us...God cannot save the imaginary person that we try to present to him, or to others or ourselves.It is important that before we start to pray we should take time to recollect ourselves, to reflect and become aware of the real state in which we present ourselves to the Lord....We have to become aware of the different states in which we pray. Otherwise our prayer will not even contain the truth of the moment....when we stand before him, we should leave all this knowledge of him behind, however true and rich it may be. We should stand before the unknown God, the mystery, the divine darkness, we should be ready to meet God as he wishes to reveal himself to us today.When we cannot feel the presence we must be able to wait with awe and reverence.... God’s apparent absence s usually caused by our won blindness.
Are we prepared to find God as he is, even if this encounter condemns us and upsets al the values which have hitherto been dear to us?An encounter with God is a free act where God is in control and it is only when we are humble, as well as beginning to love God, that we are able to support his absence, to be enriched even by his absence.Instead of seeking to share God’s serenity, we ask God to share our tumult.
Let us rise in the morning and offer ourselves to God... Let us ask the Lord to bless this day and bless us in it. ... Every encounter is an encounter in God and in his sight. We are sent everyone we meet on our way, either to give or to receive, sometimes without even knowing it.It is for us o be Christ’s presence on earth, sometimes victorious and sometimes crucified.We must be able to be quiet and meditative, look calmly at all the things that puzzle us, for we will not be able to understand everything until we see God’s whole plan... Human wisdom must give way to the capacity to contemplate the mystery before us, to try and discern the invisible hand of God whose wisdom is so different from human wisdom. But his wisdom is in the human heart.... We must learn to wait till we understand.We must try and discern God’s plan by attentive prayer and silent meditation.... We must try to do this gradually, starting with a few hours or less, because if we force ourselves to strenuously and for too long to pay attention in this way, we will find it beyond our strength and we will collapse.... Then gradually, as our will becomes trained and the concentration of our heart and mind improves, we will be able to spend whole days in prayer.When spontaneity and enthusiasm is lacking, we force ourselves to pray.We are not primarily seeking the joy of an encounter with God but the deep transformation that God alone can work in us.Our prayer should be sober, attentive and humble. It should express the reality of its own poverty as well as our firm convictions and desire.
In dreary times we can start from a scripture text.When God seems absent, the heavens empty and the void immense, we should direct or prayer not to him but talk to ourselves. We should address each word of our prayer to our own depressed and dormant soul. We must treat our soul like a mother taking a naughty child onto her lap and telling him a story.>We must not straightjacket our will, but let it lie comfortably at rest... We should be able to let ourselves go, be supple, not passive but in an attitude of surrender.
We have to learn to discern two kinds of silence. God’s silence and our own inner silence.An encounter does not become deep and full until the two parties to it are capable of being silent with one another...When our silence is deep enough, we can begin to speak from its depths, but carefully and cautiously so as not to break it by the noisy disorder of our words. Then our thought is contemplative.
Another book bt Anthony Bloom
Why do we include Saints in our Prayers?
In our Prayer rule we can also ask the saints to interceed for us and to help us in our worldly struggles. Saints are those holy individuals who have died as martyrs, who have made a fearless confession of faith often with the threat of death, who have demonstrated self-sacrificing service, who have a special gift of healing and perform miracles after their death when remembered in prayer.
These holy people the Lord calls His friends. You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you. (John 15:14-15)
They are those He has received in His heavenly mansions in fulfillment
of His words: Where I am, there you may be
also. (John 14:3) Instead of praying for forgiveness of their
sins, we praise them for their struggles in Christ. We make petitions
to them asking them to pray for us and the remission of our sins
and spiritual growth, seeking their help in our spiritual needs.
The saints are near the Throne of God.
Then I looked, and I heard the voice of many
angels around the throne, the living creatures, and the elders;
and the number of them was ten thousand times ten thousand, and
thousands of thousands, who praised the Lord. (Rev 5:11)
Our communion in prayer with the saints is the realization of the
bond between Christians on earth and the Heavenly Church. (Heb 12:22-23)
Sacred scripture presents numerous examples that the righteous, while still living can see and hear and know much that is inaccessible to the ordinary understanding. The saints while they were still on earth we able to penetrate in spirit into the world above.
From the parable of the rich man and Lazarus (luke 16:10-31) we know that Abraham being in heaven could hear the cry of the rich man who was suffering in hell, despite the great unbridgeable gulf that separates them.
The Church has always taught the invocation of the saints, convinced they intercede for us before God in heaven. Having a prayer relationship with a saint is another way that we can gain help in our spiritual path to salvation in the Church.

